The Escape of the bullies and making a character of yourself
It’s the most difficult thing you face into your childhood and if you didn’t do it right, you will be stuck in for a long time. when you go to school everyone has those fancy bags or hats or clothes and what do you have? just regular clothes that your dad or mom actually bought for you from the discounted store that actually looks neat but not as the same level as the rest.. you get scared, they won’t like it, it’s cheap it’s not sparkling it doesn’t have anything cool on it… just regular clothes, and what does happen to you? you become antisocial. You run away you become scared.
“I don’t belong there anymore they will beat me down with whatever they have… I won’t look unique I won’t get their attention i got nothing to show or do in order to fit in anymore…”
That’s what happen through your head.. and in most cases It’s true that what happens to you, you become weak and an easy target to have fun… Kids would aim for attention they would do anything for it they don’t mean harm from the start it’s just their own behavior once it sink deep in it becomes a habit where they become the superior over you because you did let them do that to you, because you were afraid of simple assists which is the looks, but you were a kid and you’re not the one to be blamed right? you would go back to your parents you would yell at them..
” it’s all because of you, why can’t i have the things they do? why don’t you care?! i hate this place i don’t want to be with you anymore”
Saying that and you don’t realize, those two parents actually doing their best just to build you up and stand on your feet to live your life…. to do what they couldn’t do at all, to make those things you see possible.. they work so hard to do it, they might be angry they might not show it at all, but in the core where the heart and soul is… those two want the best for you, those kids out there their parents were just like you… some of them did not have anything of those when they were kids no one liked them because they didn’t have anything special… but they built themselves with the help of their parents they survived that mission and made their dream come true, not for them but for their own kids….. if they can do that why can’t you???
Why can’t you go to your parents and say.. “hey you know what? everything you have done to me is appreciated… and your hopes won’t be in vain I will stand on my feet I will make my own life much better and I’ll share it with you the one who actually made it possible to happen..”
Why don’t you go back to school the next day and show them… clothes or fancy stuff doesn’t mean anything and doesn’t show who you are.. those assist just brings attention that won’t last… show them that the hardship that you actually lived on BUILT you and made you stronger made you wiser and made you know where to find or how to make your own life joyful.. made you realize how close you can be to your own parents made you realize how much important is your inner feelings and personality.
You can stop whatever bad thing happens to you before it escalates, when get bullied don’t look down look up face your fears, get yourself a punch from reality and feel how much it does hurt, hurts so much it knocks you up your feet and drops you to the floor, but as soon as you stand up again fight back, defend yourself for there is no one who will stand with you, LOSE the fight or WIN it, you went out proving to them all… I might be not as cool as those people BUT I’m cool enough to show them they are wrong and what they do is actually wrong and you are walking the right path…
” I was 13 years old back then, Kids were bullying a girl she was about my age she had no mother she only had her father and she had been called lots of names that rips your heart apart.. she is too young to get this, she should be with her mother teaching her how to be a lady how to feel like a young girl but her mother wasn’t there at all… at first i was super happy, I wasn’t bullied anymore.. I could go back to my parent’s cracked wall home with barely anything to eat or something nice to wear and live happily ever after, but i felt bad.. i could stand for myself she can’t I could live for the rest of my life getting bullied i got used to it i always went back home beaten up while crying go to my room and sit with my older brother and talk about something and there you go am ready for the next day… this girl had no one but her father who works hard to make her life better yet he doesn’t see what is going on… so i had to stand for her and for my own self i won’t be bullied anymore…nor she deserve to be bullied … so the next day came by and i did… and oh boy i came back home with messed up clothes and blood all over it because apparently when you stand for someone it will back fire at you, but this time my father caught me and simply said ” did you stand up for yourself ? did you prove your point?” and i simply said no.. I couldn’t do anything they were SIX boys beating the soul out of me.. and he replied ” tomorrow I want you to stand up again and you shall be rewarded” and the next day i did… and oh boy i was a beast, it’s not me who is fighting it was the new me and the old me standing next to each other fighting… I lost the fight YET AGAIN but i came back with a trophy… one of the six boys tooth and i was rewarded…. my father hugged me and said “that’s my son” this is not the reward… i was waiting for the reward until the next day came by… and i realized… my reward was RESPECT from those who have everything more than me because i proved it , fancy stuff doesn’t change you it just covers what you really are..